We're both in college. We've only been on two dates so far but we talk a lot (almost every day of the week - he initiates it). We've held hands and stuff and joke and flirt but we haven't told each other we like each other or anything like that yet. When can I finally define this guy as my "boyfriend?"
Also - this probably seems dumb but should I take my relationship status as "single" down from Facebook. Do you think it'll make him mad/confused if I keep that up if we've been going on dates every weekend? Should I take it down after the third date?
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I would have a conversation with him to find out where you stand. That way you can be sure. If you feel like you want to make it official, tell him that.
If you're not sure, do some soul searching. But it sounds to me like you'd like to pursue something beyond just being friends. Express yourself! You'll feel better when you get it out there!
Best of luck!
Think you should talk to him. If not in a serious conversation...just bring it up flirtily... say something like.. "oh hey, so this other guy was approaching me.. he was being flirty and asked if i had a boyfriend. ... tell me, do i have a boyfriend? :) "
Chances are he's not going to say no. But even if he does... at least you know. He might have a girlfriend already and is just messing around with you :P Said from experience.
The facebook thing, I'd confirm before doing it. In case he's not "ready" for it to be called a relationship. Some people like more dating time. Also, just in case he's dating other people... and you start calling him your boyfriend without him knowing it, and he keeps dating other girls... well.. that's not a nice situation.
Good luck!
As a guy, I can say that you should definitely remove ALL relationship status from FB. Don't even have it say anything. I wouldnt refer to him as your boyfriend until y'all at least can say your "in love". When you say this would mostlikly fall after y'all first kiss while there is still that "first kiss magic" over y'all. You know, when your daring into eachothers eyes. That would be your best bet. Try to put yourself in that position towards the end of a date, preferably when there are not others around y'all so there isn't as much pressure. If you stand face to face closely, hold his hands in front of you , and tell him how much fun you had and that you were really happy he asked you to accompany him( do the whole gaze from yalls hands to his eyes in a slow sweep up). there is almost garenteed a kiss in it for you. I want to help because I didn't get help and I wish I had it. Good luck
Ps it might be a good idea to check his FB to see how he has his relationship status set
dnt put your status as single on fb, it will do confuse him. I recommend you do that after you both are confirmed. Look, guys don't like this chit/chat..hide/seek, so u should definitely take it to the next level..sometimes its the girl who initiates, keep waiting and it will be gone when you both are confused.
Wait for him to make it official. You dont want to come off as desperate or clingy. If he wants it to be official trust me he will find a way. Good luck!
Sure why not?.... its not like hes gonna get pissed and yell at you for it....
You should wait for him to tell you first, Because then itll be awkward. so my advice is to wait and see what he wants, can you please answer mine ? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoAGk...