i met this girl in uni and she askd me to go and get a pizza with her tonight, so i thought to myself well yes, if i say no then i may lose her as a friend and pizza isnt a big deal rite. then she said she wanted to go see a film after and i made sure it was an action film becuase i don't want her to go get the wrong impression. she is a lovely girl, its just that i am not looking to have a realationship at the moment......can anyone help me? thanks :)
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when you get the chance, say something about how great it is to just hang out with someone and not worry about it being a date (and say it very casually, as if you were talking about how happy you are they haven't changed the recipe for chocolate ice cream). just make sure it fits the conversation when you bring it up.
Hi.
Thanks for the qn.:)
As a girl,from my point of view, i would prefer if the guy told me,before there was any "time" together. When I say "time" means..doing any activity together even walking side by side. It might seem just a walk..but when i like that someone, i would be feeling a good kind of awkward. So to prevent getting embarrassed when he tells me after the activities,I would prefer if he explained to me right before doing anything together. So, when things get cleared from the start, there will be respect. I will probably thank him for not being hesitant.
What my guy friend on the other hand did was to ask his friend to call him at a specific time when he was with the girl..and he told the friend.. that he was busy with so much stuff and that his main priority is his studies... in front of the girl. It seemed cowardly..but i guss he got his point across though..since she distanced herself from him after that.
Hope i helped u somehow uni guy!
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If you really think shes into you and you just want to be friends, you shouldnt encourage her like that.
To her, that pizza Is a 'big deal.'
act properly. if u really think you wanted to be in friend with her she will automatically become your friend