my bf of 2.5 years broke up with me about 4 weeks ago. he's 28, i'm 26...i really love him and we had a wonderful 2.5 years!!!..we work together & still see e/o at work...he stops by my office in the morning, and talks to me like before, though no kisses but sometime hugs. when he wants to get lunch he asks me if i want anything or we walk together like before...he waits for me and walks me to my car everyday & gives me a hug...just like before...we don't see eachother outside of work anymore, &he doesn't call/text like he used to...there's a camping trip that's coming up that we talked about last week (that has been planned for about a year)...& i asked him if i was still going to go...& he answered with "we'll see." (he's not interested in anyone else, and wanted to marry me a yr ago, but i didn't move in..) what do you make of his way of being with me?do you think there's a chance of us getting back together? how would you approach it?? will he ask me to go camping??

i'm in the process of changing my job..and am really excited about it. last week a couple of times while walking to my car we were talking about instinct and how he's always told me to go with them. i put my arm around his arm when it was in his pocket and we walked a few blocks like that, and i put my head on his shoulder as we were walking...and it was like old times....do you think we have a chance at getting back together?

he said when he was breaking up that he loves me but he's not in love with me, and he's tried to fall back in love with me. i had left him at work one day a couple months back bc i was upset with him...he said since that day he's been thinking that if we were to have another argument in the future, he wouldn't be able to handle me leaving him like that. he asked me to move in a yr ago, but i still hadn't...but i was at his house every weekend and we hung out...we were perfect for eachother....he said in our break up conversation that he was content but not happy.he thought he could make me happy...but he couldn't... i was complaining a LOT about my job for the last few months. he said he's tried to fall back in love with me, and he would still want to be with me if he could fall back in love....he also said he still wants to see me in any way i let him...help!!? what's going on? how do i make it work??