I really liked this guy and we went on a couple dates but he didn't treat me very well (he wasn't a class a loser/jerk, but he showed up late and didn't open the doors for me) so I decided to text him and tell him I wasn't ready to be in a relationship with him and hope to remain friends (kind of stupid move I know I know)... Well he never wrote back so I figured he was ticked. It's been a week and his brother has been liking and commenting on my stuff on facebook which he never used to do. Now he wrote me a message and mentioned a random inside joke we had and asked me a question about it... I'm confused. Why didn't he even mention the text I sent him? What's going on through his head and why did he reach out to me like that?
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He probably doesn`t know how to go about it. Or he probably just accepted what you said and is "remaining friends" now. Not everyone get`s ticked about being dumped.. Maybe deep down he wanted it too, and you had the courage to let it out. If he wasn`t good for you in the first place, you shouldn`t even worry. Not all guys like to chase.
It's obvious he likes you. Or else why would he tell his brother about you. I'm 99% sure that he does. However, I'm not really sure why he wouldn't text back; he probably didn't know what to say. And as for the door thing, he might not have payed attention, or was mad that day, or simply just isn't a gentleman. You should stop worrying and go for it. I promise everything will be fine. Anyways, good luck; I wish you all the best! :)
How old are you? Sounds like your very young... I think you need to let this one go.. There are many fish in the sea.. You are stressing over nonsense. Texts that you sent... Well, if you didnt want to be his friend you shouldnt have sent it. Dont say and do things that you will regret later down the line. Being young and involved or liking someone can be very confusing and most times stressful .. My only advice to you is... Forget about it. It was a couple of dates. He treated you like Poop.. DON'T DEVALUE YOURSELF! Just because you want to be with "someone"...