Should I talk to my boyfriend about this? Please help!?
I'm going away to college as a freshman and my boyfriend has just one year of college left. We're going to be 4 hours away from each other so it's going to be a pretty good distance to carry out a long distance relationship. We've talked about visiting and making our relationship work, but I want to talk to him about where he sees us going and our future etc. because after his year of college I'm wondering if he's going to move closer, or if he wants me to move closer when I'm done after 4 years, how long he even sees us together, etc. Should I talk to him about these things before leaving in a month? And if so, how can I talk to him about it without him freaking out or think I'm trying to push him into marriage or something? I just think having a goal/plan in sight would make things easier on both of us...
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TELL HIM TO SHUT THE F*CK UP AND GET TESTED FOR AIDS
No offense darling, but having a goal and having future plans is only a women's thing. You are the ones pursuing that so called "security", even tho you perfectly know that you won't be loyal to the nice guy you're with and you haven't been in the past.
Now, since he seems to be the typical "nice guy", I'm sure you will easily drag him into whatever you want. But let me give you an advice first: If you are going to be in a distance relationship, he might end up caught by another girl (nice guys with a nice future are an eye candy, and you damn sure know it!). Or even worse (or better for him, depending on the pov), he might discover that being single is the best deal.
Personally, I think he's too much of a pus*y. You don't have to worry, it seems you got him in your bag and he'll do whatever you want him to.
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Yes, you need to sit down with him and have this discussion. Bring up all the things you mentioned in this and see what he thinks about it.
just calmly explain to him how you feel. i can't see him freaking out if you ask him about these things. if he does then he's not worth the trouble.
yes,you should talk to your boyfriend about it .But you never discuss a long time and talking carelessly.