I told this guy to go away after he asked my boyfriend to spar. I'm against it, but I know I can't tell my boyfriend not to. After I told him to go away, he told me to shut up. Then, i told him to shut up. Then he called me ugly. And as the argument went on, that's all he said. Finally, I got fed up. I said, "You're so stupid. You're calling me ugly, yet, you liked me. So, I guess you're into ugly chicks? I guess I can tell everyone an ugly chick turned you down. That sounds so sad, doesn't it? You and your persistent @$$ need to know when to back. No wonder no one likes you. You're arrogant, rude, ugly, and you're a fat piece of useless mass." He threatened to get girls to jump me.The thing is, my boyfriend let the fight go on. The thing is, this guy isn't even that close of a friend to my boyfriend. He's barely a friend. The most conversation they have is "Hi" and yet, he didn't defend me. Should i break up with him because of this? Because he didn't stand up for me? I mean, he didn't even fight for what he believes in. He thinks I'm beautiful let he sits there and lets a jerk insult me.Update:Ugh. No, I think violence is the last resort. It always has been. But he didn't even verbally fight for me. He didn't tell him to go away or to be quiet or not to say those things to me. He could've just said "No, I disagree." or something. But he did NOTHING at all.. Created by Anonymous. family-relationships-import - other-family-relationships-import

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boyfriend can't defend?

I told this guy to go away after he asked my boyfriend to spar. I'm against it, but I know I can't tell my boyfriend not to.

After I told him to go away, he told me to shut up. Then, i told him to shut up. Then he called me ugly. And as the argument went on, that's all he said. Finally, I got fed up. I said, "You're so stupid. You're calling me ugly, yet, you liked me. So, I guess you're into ugly chicks? I guess I can tell everyone an ugly chick turned you down. That sounds so sad, doesn't it? You and your persistent @$$ need to know when to back. No wonder no one likes you. You're arrogant, rude, ugly, and you're a fat piece of useless mass." He threatened to get girls to jump me.

The thing is, my boyfriend let the fight go on. The thing is, this guy isn't even that close of a friend to my boyfriend. He's barely a friend. The most conversation they have is "Hi" and yet, he didn't defend me.

Should i break up with him because of this? Because he didn't stand up for me? I mean, he didn't even fight for what he believes in. He thinks I'm beautiful let he sits there and lets a jerk insult me.

Update:

Ugh. No, I think violence is the last resort. It always has been. But he didn't even verbally fight for me. He didn't tell him to go away or to be quiet or not to say those things to me. He could've just said "No, I disagree." or something. But he did NOTHING at all.

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You really think your boyfriend should hit someone, or be hit? For any reason?

Then I think you need to grow up a little. I would be P!SSED if my boyfriend got in a fight, even if he was "defending" me.

First of all, mature people use words, not their fists. People talk. Animals fight.

And second, I don't need defending. I'm not some delicate little flower, and I am not bothered by idiots trash-talking me.

If you think violence is ok, or that you can reasonably expect your boyfriend to be violent, or receive violence, over you, then I think you have some maturing to do.

EDIT: I wouldn't either, in his position. Think about it.

You're a girl. He's not going to hit you, because he knows he's off to jail to get butt-raped if he does. He may threaten to send someone else to hit you, but he won't do it himself.

But your boyfriend? Your boyfriend, he will hit. In fact, he'd been wanting to hit him.

This goes back to my point above - you shouldn't need other people to defend you from words. They're just words.

In that situation, I would totally understand if my boyfriend didn't say anything. He's at risk. I'm not.

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