I just went on a date with this guy and I think it went really well. He held my hand a lot toward the end and didn't want the date to end he said. I texted him afterward to boost his confidence and let him know I had fun, but his texts were a little short (albeit it was 12 a.m. by then so idk...). Anyway, I'm wondering how long do you think it will take for him to ask for a second date if he's interested? Should I wait for him to contact me now since I basically initiated our last text? I'm just worried that he hasn't contacted me all day today...
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That is a great sign! He was obviously holding your hand because he doesn't want to let you go. After the first date girls are always paranoid like "oh my gosh, how did that go? is he going to text me? what is happening?!?!" but he was probably just tired, or having a family/friend day. Don't rush. Wait it out and see if he texts you & asks you out, but if he doesn't after about 5 days, text him & remind him how much fun you guys had together & see if he would like to do it again. But again, DO NOT PUSH IT. Guys tend to get a little intimidated by pushy girls. Good luck!
Short answers to your text is not a good sign. when a guy likes you, he will say or do whatever he has to to make you happy, like hold more than one liner convos on text messages. I dated a guy like that, for 3yrs. never really told me much of nothing. He snuck off and married someone, right under my nose while living with him. it's been a year and now he is talking my head off!!! Answer my question and you will see, now he's texting and messaging me but before nothing!! I have texts where I mention that to him. Find someone else, you will know if he is the one, if he texts you head off, in a nice way :)
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Yes, it's a very good sign. Just don't get ahead of yourself and come off as pushy or needy. Let him call or text you. If you don't hear from him by Tuesday simply text him to ask how he's doing and that you were thinking of him. Nothing absolute...nothing nervy.
Just be patient. It's only been one day. If he contacted you already he would run the risk of seeming clingy. Wait a few days, yes a FEW days. If there still is no contact from him, call him and hint that you want to see him again.
If u want him go for it. Text him and dont be aware that ur the one i initiating because a lot of guys like that. It takes the insecurity off them
I think its a good sign that he likes you. I would give it a day or two for him to text you, and if you hear nothing, text him asking how he is.
personally i think you should, be forward with him and ask him if he would like to hang out again, if he seems turned off, than he's obviously intimdated by you and doesnt respect your honesty,which in that case your better off without him. But if all goes well, that means he may be turned on by your confidence, so both ways its kind of a win? goodluck! :D
Yes, holding hands is a good sign!
ooo yes it is but it depends how long u ben dating like in a moth a guy should all ready be kissen u in the first month. love miley
he probably did really like the date but he doesn't want you to think he's desperate. He'll probably ask you in a couple days.