She is always on facebook friending guys that she doesn't know. She has told me that in the past she has become involved with people that she friended on the internet. I try not to worry about this activity but I have to ask; 'Why consistantly friend unknown men?'
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SHE IS the one I would be asking WHY is she always looking for strange men to friend on Face Book. WHY doesn't she look for females to chat with instead. It sure would make me feel uneasy to know my spouse was friending only men. ASK HER!!! I loath Face Book with a passion & deleted myself off it when I found ALL the problems it was causing relationships/marriages/cheating etc. I wanted NO parts of that site. I was only on it to befriend those I worked with for 20 yrs. prior to retirement. I then deleted myself off it & have NO desire to go near it. Find out her reasoning's, if you don't feel comfortable with her ans., you could always ask her you'd rather she too deleted herself off it. I cannot blame you for how you feel & have every rite to feel as you do....the best to you...:)
You really need to open up the lines of communication with your wife. Sit her down and show her the responses to this very question....print them out and tell her that other people hold a common thought about her facebook activity.
If the shoe were on the other foot, she would be screaming blue murder and you would be cheating without a doubt even though you have not physcially met any of these people you talk to who happen to be of the opposite sex.
She is clearly in need of constant re-assurance as a woman and likes the attention of other males. She is the one with the problems ....NOT YOU.
Sit her down and lay all this out and tell her that her actions amount to cheating no matter what she says.
Ask her where she thinks this marriage is going to end up? Divorce courts is my guess if her actions continue.
I always wondered why a person in a relationship is on there friending strange people of the opposite sex myself. They like and invite trouble in my opinion.
In my opinion I would tell her how I felt. I would be mad. She could be up to something and its your right to know and to be concerned.