How can I deal with my girlfriend wearing very revealing clothing?
I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half. We haven't engaged in any sexual/physical activity and we haven't seen each other naked before.
For the last 6 months, when we're together, she will dress in really revealing clothing or walk around my house in his just her underwear. She will also sit or lie on me whilst like this. She doesn't like the idea of me taking any of her clothing off and has never desired or allowed anything sexual. I've attempted to take things further slowly a couple of times when she's been dressed like this, but she resists nicely. I immediately stop.
We've spoken about this and she isn't interested in anything physical/sexual apart from kissing. I respect her, but I'm having a lot of trouble with my desires for her as she is extremely attractive to me and I'm always excited when I see her like that. I don't necessarily want intercourse, but simply exploring her a little would be nice.
Does anyone know what I can do to respond better to this situation? I'm 21 and she's 20.
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She knows exactly what she is doing at your expense. She is teasing you to the max but she don't care what it is doing to you. It is a ego boost for her to see you being tormented this way. I think you should have a chat with her and find out what she wants, if anything, besides tormenting you. Good luck.
tell her to stop playing games with you!
that is exactly what she is doing
she knows that you want her, and shes using that to her advantage to make herself feel good. If she was really so "pure" she wouldnt be laying on you in only her underwear, thats just asking for it.
Honestly, I'd sit her down and ask her what she really wants, and if she says she doesnt want to engage in anything sexually, i'd ask her to stop teasing you, because it's not fair.
I think she is being kind of dumb to be honest. It's like she is playing games with you. She says she doesn't want anything and then parades around in clothing like that? You need to talk to her. Tell her that if she really doesn't want anything, than she needs to dress more appropriately and quit playing childish games with you.
four things 1- she either a cheater, maybe getting someone else 2- sh playing hard tog get or maybe she saving her self for the right moment 3- She maybe scared she don't no what to do, she maybe a virgina 4- she want u to take action, like role play some **** like that
talk to her again or deal with it .