i dont drink very often but this weekend gone i did and woke up feeling like a real idiot as i am going to ?
have to front these people again sometime im wondering if anyone can give me a good line i can use to reclaim my dignity i allready feel like a goose and no one can be more harder on me than myself..........
Update:i was just happy loud obnoxious loud told everyone i love them all that kind of stuff, danced like and idiot called big scary men gay alot. and after many shots later my partner was trying to make me go home and i wouldnt so he and an old friend of mine carried me to the car were i jumped out of and had a slash rite in front of my old mate .......silly stuff that i should be over by now in my 30s
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Why are you feelling like an idiot? Why because you got drunk? Big deal, everyone, just about everyone has done it..No big deal..stop thinking about it...Unless you did something really bad...and I mean really bad ..like kill someone..do not stress about it...they will try and make a big deal about it maybe because they have gone out and got drunk and done some things their not proud of and want to make you feel bad to make themselves feel better... Get it? Dont worry about it. Face them and if they make a big deal, laugh it off, its their problem
If you do not give any details as to what had happened, no one can help you because we have no idea as to what really happened. But the best thing to do is to just keep quiet and act as you would. If no one asks, then you wouldn't have to say anything. And if someone does ask, just laugh it off as a joke and say that it was a one time thing that you wouldn't do again. Just chalk it up as a bad experience and that it was a good lesson. I doubt that they would bring it up since it is rather troublesome in a way.
Don't be too hard on yourself, everyone makes a fool out of themselves at some point when they're drunk!
Just laugh it off, there's no real shame in it. As long as you didn't get in a fight or something, everyone will forget about it pretty quickly.
first thing i always do if i have drank too much and made a fool of myself is laugh at myself. make a joke like well there won't be any slurring tonight or whatever it was that happened. I just laugh at it and it won't be a big deal.
remember...you dont need to explain yourself to anyone or everyone!!!
if you've messed up in that night, then BE IT. you're not perfect. no one is...don't be too hard on yourself... if someone approached you..asking what the hell happened to u that time..just say..."well, i kinda had an awful night. sorry if i bothered you or anyone..." PERIOD. stop there. the more you try to explain to everyone, the more they'll think you're pathetic. Stand up firm. YOu're only human...no one's perfect. One mistake may ruin you...but only those who are worthy to your friend will not judge you for that one little bad time.
Just don't worry about it. What's done is done and cannot be changed.
Remember, they probably were drinking also.
Next time, _you_ stay sober and watch _them_ make jerks out of themselves.
Part of the deal when you go overboard.
My advice, say that you went overboard and apologize for an dumb actions.
Been there and done that, It's all water under the bridge now.
You won't be the only one, or the last.
just say you were drunk!
everyone does stupid things under the influence of alcohol!
they'll understand