Christmas with boyfriend? Are you spending yours together?
I know this is gonna sound immature. But my boyfriend and I have been together now for almost 10 months. Christmas is coming up.. obviously! And I was just wondering if he thinks I will be seeing him on Christmas Day?! I know I should just ask him but I don't wanna look stupid if he assumes we will be spending Christmas Day seperately with our own families. How long do people usually go out with eachother until they start seeing eachother on Christmas?
Ps, we are in a serious relationship, we love eachother very much and have already talked about moving in together next year. So... should I just ask him and risk getting shot down!?!?
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I think you should spend christmas with your family because you never know what you going to miss and you have to cherish every day that you have with your family. You might not be with that guy for the rest of your life. This is what id do. I would spend like my on christmas time with him like after christmas day or something like that but not on christmas day. He should want to be with his family too! O and if he loves you he will totally respect your decision either way!
If you want to spend Christmas with him then there's no harm in asking! But you shouldn't be offended if he wants to stay with his family - most people spend Christmas with their families. My boyfriend (of 2 years) and I normally meet up just before or after Christmas day instead.
You are right, it sounds immature. You have been going out a very short period of time, barely know each other and are talking about moving in together. Yet you are afraid to ask him a question? Doesn't sound like a "serious" relationship to me.
it took me 3 years into my relationship to finally spend a christmas together. so just be patient. I think you guys should spend christmas with your own family this year...dont rush things
last year me and my ex spent christmas together and we only dated for a month before chrismas so i think you should spend christmas together. because christmas is the time when you spend time with the ones you love.
xoxo blondechickie
NO. I see him all the time. You should be with your family on Christmas. He can see you after.
Just ask, he really loves you so it should be okay.
Don't worry,
what's the worse that can happen?