Need advice? Kind of cheated on my boyfriend?
So lately my boyfriend has been upsetting me. He cheated on me a long time ago... And recently we were at a friend's party playing a game of spin the bottle last night and he basically was rooting for me to kiss this other guy which was really awkward and upsetting. Plus then he got super drunk and ended up having to stay at the friend's house which also kind of made me annoyed... So I know it's no excuse but I ended up getting a ride home from a guy friend and one thing led to another and we started making out pretty heavy before we both decided it wasn't right to do while I'm still with my boyfriend... Ugh I feel so confused and ashamed. I still love my boyfriend but I also feel feelings for my guy friend and I don't know whether I should tell my boyfriend or just shrug it off to being tipsy and upset? Ughhh please someone I need advice?
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It sounds like a pretty difficult relationship- and to be honest sounds like one that shouldn't even exist anymore. Maybe you should consider seeing your 'guy friend' some more. It could end up being the best thing you've ever done. You should do the right thing though..It will be incredibly hard, but let him know. Don't bring up his past, though he's cheated before, It was wrong of you to cheat as well. It will just hurt you both. Good luck!
Do the right thing, tell your boyfriend. Cheating is cheating regardless of what he's done in the past. If you can't be honest with your boyfriend, then you shouldn't be in a relationship with him.