Not too long ago me and my dad had a great relationship, and all the sudden every time i see him he always argues with me. And when we have our argument he always picks out the smallest things I do wrong and bring them into the argument to yell at me more even if they don't have anything in common. Heś never been like this before, back then, I always wanted to be with him instead of my mom but now its switched. He doesn't really talk anymore and his mood is almost like a bipolar persons (no offence) i know my dad isn't bipolar btw. Secondly, he always chooses me to argue with and not my sibling. i'm the oldest so maybe he expects more from me?? Its weird tho because I try my absolute hardest. I'm an A and B student, and not to brag but compared to other teens i'm like an angel goody two shoes. I feel like he thinks i'm a bad kid because hes never had or knows what its like to have a bad teenager? Whenever he brings some touchy topic up like work, or my braces (btw im a early teen) i get emotional when he starts to yell and he doesn't know how to stop. He even went as far as saying im like my mom, which to me hurts ALOT because i never ever want to be my like my mom because shes made so many bad decisions. and i don't even make poor decisions! What should i do? My dad and I are slowly drifting apart and it scares me. Please help! Ill take any advice.
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maybe you should show him this question so he knows exactly how you feel
If you have a cat (which I don't know if you do or not) get one, then follow it up by getting a litter box and making it poop, then wrap that poop up in a package and send it to him. Worked for me.