Is my boyfriend just about done?
I've been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now and we've always had a great relationship. We see each other a lot and we always tell each other that we love one another. But lately it seems like he is getting bored with me. Like sometimes it feels like he doesn't want to spend time alone with me and he just isn't as interested anymore. I've asked him about it and he just tells me nothing's wrong but it still seems like something is... I really love him so much and I don't want to lose him either way but what are your opinions? What should I do?
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let fate decide.
sadly i am in this situation. My bf of 2yrs just told me he doesn't feel the same for me anymore. he said that the spark is gone. I asked him what do i have to do for me to bring it back and he simply responded "i don't know".
Sometimes it not you (you've probably heard this before). Its probably them. You still feel the spark but they don't. What you can do is try to bring back how things was when you first dated. Or try to be adventurous with the relationship. Go to a long drive or a theme park or maybe he needs some space to think. Give him a week without contact and see if he misses you. You know how they say you don't know what you got till it's gone? So just back off. Maybe he needs a guy time just like how you need your girl time.
If none of this seems to work then maybe it time for you guys to reevaluate the relationship.
Ask him things like, would you want to see someone else?
Is it okay if we take a break? Do you need time to think us through? Will you be happier without me or with someone or just by yourself?