well show him that you care about how you look to him.....work out, maybe get some attractive things at the mall to wear out. make him stand up and pay attention...how would you look in a black miniskirt? would he like to have you wearing that when you go out dancing with him? I know I love my wife to look sexy. to me she looks soooo hot when we go out....darn, I'll talk to you later, I need to go find her right now....later
You have probably heard this a million times, but communication is the key to a strong marriage. It is very important to find out from your husband what you can do to make yourself more attractive to him. After marriage, couples have a tendency to get into a routine which can lead to boredom. That is the reason why many couples don't have sex as often when they have been married for a long time. I am no expert on marriage, but as a man, I know what I desire in a woman. There are many attractive women I see who don't do what I call "magnifying" their beauty. Such ways of accomplishing this would be changing the style of clothing they wear or even getting a new hairstyle. These small things do make a difference. People need to spice things up in a relationship to get their spouse's attention. I always come across a lot of women who are extremely attractive and others who are not as attractive, but dress and carry themselves in a manner that is very pleasing. They are the ones who get my attention and will make an impression on me. So I would advise you to find out how your husband would like to see you dress and take it from that point.
But I do not want to end this answer with a double standard. Let him know what he can do to make himself more attractive for you. And, I can not stress this enough, please do not get caught in a routine. You have got to spice things up.
Those who say that attractiveness does not matter are either lying or totally delusional. Yes, beauty matters to men, they are VISUAL...unfortunately, they can't help it.
Go get professional advice, the salon, the gym, and someplace like Nordstroms where they have personal shoppers. They will help you buy clothes for no additional charge. Or, if you have a very put-together friend, ask for her advice, she will love you and feel flattered that you trust her judgment.
For date night, get a cut with the blow dry style, wear something nice...
Bottom line is you will need to fork over some cash to look good unless you are a totally natural venus or something.
you shouldn't have to make ur-self more attractive. i've always had that question in my head even before i married.- in almost every relationship. But it came to a point that if you've been with someone for a while and then started to feel this way something might also be going on. Just be ur-self. and try to maintain what you had when you married him.
Usually by becoming more confident in yourself... Try a work-out routine, whether I am or not I always feel much sexier and attractive after a good work-out.
ask him whats wrong with him if he is not attracted to you then he has a problem so just ask if you have went through some thing to look good especially going to bed and he doesnt notice then oh yeah he has a problem
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well show him that you care about how you look to him.....work out, maybe get some attractive things at the mall to wear out. make him stand up and pay attention...how would you look in a black miniskirt? would he like to have you wearing that when you go out dancing with him? I know I love my wife to look sexy. to me she looks soooo hot when we go out....darn, I'll talk to you later, I need to go find her right now....later
You have probably heard this a million times, but communication is the key to a strong marriage. It is very important to find out from your husband what you can do to make yourself more attractive to him. After marriage, couples have a tendency to get into a routine which can lead to boredom. That is the reason why many couples don't have sex as often when they have been married for a long time. I am no expert on marriage, but as a man, I know what I desire in a woman. There are many attractive women I see who don't do what I call "magnifying" their beauty. Such ways of accomplishing this would be changing the style of clothing they wear or even getting a new hairstyle. These small things do make a difference. People need to spice things up in a relationship to get their spouse's attention. I always come across a lot of women who are extremely attractive and others who are not as attractive, but dress and carry themselves in a manner that is very pleasing. They are the ones who get my attention and will make an impression on me. So I would advise you to find out how your husband would like to see you dress and take it from that point.
But I do not want to end this answer with a double standard. Let him know what he can do to make himself more attractive for you. And, I can not stress this enough, please do not get caught in a routine. You have got to spice things up.
Those who say that attractiveness does not matter are either lying or totally delusional. Yes, beauty matters to men, they are VISUAL...unfortunately, they can't help it.
Go get professional advice, the salon, the gym, and someplace like Nordstroms where they have personal shoppers. They will help you buy clothes for no additional charge. Or, if you have a very put-together friend, ask for her advice, she will love you and feel flattered that you trust her judgment.
For date night, get a cut with the blow dry style, wear something nice...
Bottom line is you will need to fork over some cash to look good unless you are a totally natural venus or something.
you shouldn't have to make ur-self more attractive. i've always had that question in my head even before i married.- in almost every relationship. But it came to a point that if you've been with someone for a while and then started to feel this way something might also be going on. Just be ur-self. and try to maintain what you had when you married him.
Usually by becoming more confident in yourself... Try a work-out routine, whether I am or not I always feel much sexier and attractive after a good work-out.
Good luck!
Plastic surgery
Fix your hair and nails.
Wear a dress or skirt - men like it better than pants
Wear a smile
Have a pleasant, charming attitude
And a squirt of perfume.
Joy to you!
LOL I don't know if the husbands would even notice.
But, some might
ask him whats wrong with him if he is not attracted to you then he has a problem so just ask if you have went through some thing to look good especially going to bed and he doesnt notice then oh yeah he has a problem
Laugh!