Why do I get really nervous around grils?
Im 14 and I have never had a grielfriend, Whenever a girl asks me for help or they ask a question I stutter and slur my words and my face goes a little red, why does this happen everytime I talk to a girl my age not like younger or older just my age. Its starting to get really annoying because I cant talk to girls, I dont have a defficiency where I get an erection or sweat a lot its just my speech.
Please help I dont like this. Is there anyway to boost my confidence
(BTW im not ugly or fat so im fine in those catagories)
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You said that the problem is your speech and you mentioned stutter. Do you think you have a stuttering problem? Do you feel tensed when you speak? Do you find it hard to start words? Do you get blocks or repetitions when speaking?
If yes, read more about what stuttering is and maybe talk to your parents about it and seek professional help from a speech therapist.
You could find good info about it on the stuttering foundation website
You probably don't have a good experience talking to girls like you mentioned you never had a girl friend thats not a bad thing though. I can't really tell you anything but dressing nice and looking nice overall builds confidence, try being more social,you'll see more girls which makes you more comfortable around them.Just don't become cocky lol.(:
Most girls think those kind of reactions are kind a cute. It's okay, u just have 2 think positive and giv ur best every time u try talking to one. Girls are not much different from guys, so try 2 have casual conversations with them. Keep dat in mind. :)
most likely you have never cooked any food on one before
try going out with the grill on a saturday or so and make a nice chicken breast
or if you not good at cooking, a hotdog or hamburger works just as well
Its cause your secretly trying to act cool, or worried about playing it cool or trying to impress them...you put girls in a pedestal.. so here read this.
Lol I have sorta same problem...except I just think of girls as **regular people**, when you get past that barrier you just befriend them and they become friends...after that maybe a lil more...? :o
THEY AREN'T OUT TO KILL YOU W/LAZER EYES just think of them as you think of anyone else its just your psycholog dude
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jeeze theres kids on here. ha ah I did not have or use internet at your age.
uh ...you lack experience thats all and a lot of other things you gain in time..
i get that too