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when he is not deployed then he will be home most nights..............you have the option to move close to where HE is, if you decide to stay at home far away from where he is, then he will get around to coming home when he can.......but would not suggest that as an option for a good marriage to be honest.........he would have way too much free time on his hands.

Depending on where his permanent duty station is, yes you can go there most of the time to stay. However, certain overseas stations, training, and deployments you can not go with him. While in garrison (not deployed), daily life tends to be just like any other job. You go to work in the morning, get off in the evening, and have most weekends off (training days dependent of course).

You can live with him where he is stationed. The only times you won't be together is during deployments, training courses or field exercises.

Best of luck to you both.