Does my ex boyfriend like me? He has a girlfriend?
So me and my ex are still great friends, and we text eachother regularly everyday because we can tell eachother anything. He left me for his ex-girlfriend but we promised we'd stay friends and he said that he "wanted me in [his] life". I still really care for him, so I said yes. After a few weeks of ups and downs between eachother, we're finally back to normal, we hang out, and he would tell me about how his week was, etc. But I notice he always asks me for advice, he bought me medicine when I was sick, and he says that he cares about my "feelings". Since we go to the same club in college (which his girlfriend goes to too), I never see him showing affection to her, and he doesn't seem to act the same way as her than he did with me, and it's confusing. In fact, I hear from friends that he's a shitty boyfriend to her and treats her like a slave, when he never treated me that way. He doesn't tell me much about their relationship up front though. And recently his girlfriend messaged me saying that I make her uncomfortable, which I understand. But in the context as if, he still talks about you, and I don't like you being his friend. And even though I have no malice against her, she approached me like we were rivals for something. Anyway, last night, my ex got a little tipsy (like 2 beers) and he started IMing me about how horny he was, etc. And I said jokingly, "Maybe your gf can get you off, lol". He replied, "Maybe later". A few minutes pass and he starts telling me how much he misses me [in bed], and how horny he was for me. And totally blew off his gf to who was online at the time. I know it could be lust, but why would he do that to me and not his current girlfriend. He's really confusing, and I think he likes me, but I have no idea. And he may even only see me as a friend.
When we first broke up, he said that it was extremely unlikely that we'd be together again, because of my future (It's complicated, but changeable). But when he got drunk on his birthday we hooked up and he kissed me on the forehead and said "Maybe someday..." the buzz why dying at the time, so I'm not sure what to think. Sometimes I don't know if he's just using me because he stops acting nice, and kind of gets a little cold, only to text me again after a few hours saying how bored he is. I have no idea what to think
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Don't fall for it. Even if you like him. No offense, but if he's like an "other female" while with his current girlfriend, what's to stop him from doing the same with another girl if you two get back together. Just don't do it. I'm a guy, I know what we do. He is not a good character to be dating from what you've said. Good luck, hope things work out.
Btw, yes he most likely still likes you. But refer to the beginning of this message if you read this, just for an extra read through.
He's a bad womanizer btw (again)
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It's not uncommon to hear people say that all their efforts only seem to make things worse. Does this sound like what you're going through? If so, understand that there is still hope... you just need a little guidance to get you on the right track to a successful reunion. It's human nature to want what we can't have. If you throw yourself at him it will probably push him away. If your ex senses that you're pressuring him, he will pull away from you.
frequently it takes years and years of alchohol abuse to die from this style of reason. My ex mom in regulation is a entire alchoholic, drinks captain morgans rum each and every morning, afternoon, and night, and he or she continues to be ticking. An 18 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old ought to not probably have had time to drink adequate to die of liver failure strictly from ingesting. i might say there is likely another underlying reason. and of course this is not his fault. Im specific he's dissatisfied, yet ... that's his *ex* female buddy, and in the event that they have been basically mutually some weeks, it does not sound all that severe. he gets over it in time.
i feel that he's just jerking you and his girlfriend along, why won't he just be a man and tell his girl like it is? he obviously doesn't want to be with her and maybe has feelings for you. but being a woman who has been cheated on, it's pretty messed up for you to flirt back and continue talking to him after his girlfriend has told you how she feels about you guys talking. If you guys care about eachother that much than just be together, don't drag along a third person- that's just cruel.
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just sleep with him then blow him off...stand up alpha woman...show him who is man, football fan style...
if u dont everyone will call you a home wrecking slutt