I don't know if this is what you wanna hear, but the majority of guys out there just want to hit it. If you have kids it's not that big a deal, they aren't planning on staying with you anyways. If they can hang in there long enough to sleep with you, without going crazy it's a done deal. Maybe 5% percent are trying to stick around and be step dads.
Well, I come from a long line of women in my family who unfortunately have kids, then the husbands turn out to leave or are bums and are gone eventually, and they always manage to have no problem dating again, despite the fact they have kids. Most men don't mind, I think, as long as they feel like you're not trying to just "find a father for them."
It depends how old she is. Like if she's between 15-22 she's probably a whore, no offense or anything. It also depends how many and if they have the same father.But is she's over 30 then it's perfectly okay because you know her previous marriage wasn't just a one night stand like girl teenagers have. Really it also depends on the guy and what he likes in a woman. But guys can easily be scared off because a woman has kids, so you never know.
I won't go out with women who already have kids, because if the relationship gets serious, I'll end up supporting some other guys kid(s). Plus, I think kids are huge pain in the butt.
It unquestionably relies upon on the guy. There are some adult adult males that don't prefer to be afflicted with little ones. yet there are an identical volume accessible that have not got a topic with getting in contact with a woman that has a newborn. My husband married me while i became 27 and that i had a newborn from a yet another guy. in spite of if it somewhat is genuine love and meant to be, he will love and include the newborn like his very own. My husband treats my daughter like she became he very own. She nonetheless sees her organic and organic father another weekend, yet she shows no distinction in direction of them.
It varies. Some guys steer clear because they don't want a ready-made family. Some guys (the jerky ones) take it as a sigh that the woman "puts out" (especially if she was never married). Emotionally mature guys find it acceptable.
It's not a matter of whether or not she has the kid, but you can look at how she handles it and it can tell you a lot about her...if she handles it well we may find it attractive, if she's falling apart we'll probably want to stay away
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I don't know if this is what you wanna hear, but the majority of guys out there just want to hit it. If you have kids it's not that big a deal, they aren't planning on staying with you anyways. If they can hang in there long enough to sleep with you, without going crazy it's a done deal. Maybe 5% percent are trying to stick around and be step dads.
Well, I come from a long line of women in my family who unfortunately have kids, then the husbands turn out to leave or are bums and are gone eventually, and they always manage to have no problem dating again, despite the fact they have kids. Most men don't mind, I think, as long as they feel like you're not trying to just "find a father for them."
It depends how old she is. Like if she's between 15-22 she's probably a whore, no offense or anything. It also depends how many and if they have the same father.But is she's over 30 then it's perfectly okay because you know her previous marriage wasn't just a one night stand like girl teenagers have. Really it also depends on the guy and what he likes in a woman. But guys can easily be scared off because a woman has kids, so you never know.
When I was 30, I didn't care.
As I get older, I have less patience with too many people in a household. At 45, I would not date a woman who has kids living with her.
But then, I just plain wouldn't date now anyway. I really enjoy being alone.
I won't go out with women who already have kids, because if the relationship gets serious, I'll end up supporting some other guys kid(s). Plus, I think kids are huge pain in the butt.
It unquestionably relies upon on the guy. There are some adult adult males that don't prefer to be afflicted with little ones. yet there are an identical volume accessible that have not got a topic with getting in contact with a woman that has a newborn. My husband married me while i became 27 and that i had a newborn from a yet another guy. in spite of if it somewhat is genuine love and meant to be, he will love and include the newborn like his very own. My husband treats my daughter like she became he very own. She nonetheless sees her organic and organic father another weekend, yet she shows no distinction in direction of them.
It varies. Some guys steer clear because they don't want a ready-made family. Some guys (the jerky ones) take it as a sigh that the woman "puts out" (especially if she was never married). Emotionally mature guys find it acceptable.
It's not a matter of whether or not she has the kid, but you can look at how she handles it and it can tell you a lot about her...if she handles it well we may find it attractive, if she's falling apart we'll probably want to stay away
It's up to the guy if he likes a ready made family...she doesn't really have a choice, so be up front and I am sure a lot of guys don't mind at all...
Have dated women with children , its only hard when the mother can't send them anywhere so we can have " fun "