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-add a third party

-rent some videos and act out scenes

-talk to each other about role playing

the true answer would be to just open up to each other about likes and dislikes with sex.

Good luck and have fun !!!

A bit of role playing has always helped. Talk to him and find out what kind of fantasy type stuff intrests him. Try some spontaneous sex and in places in the house out of the ordinary. Send him sexy notes or leave them around the house. If you're not shy about watching porn, then try doing that together. Get some books on tantric sex and karma sutra. Don't loose hope you just have to try different things until you find something that peaks the curiousity for both of you.

Good luck.

Find some books on sex, maybe with some pictures. Maybe watch a couples-oriented skin flick together. Get some electronic toys. Don't be afraid to play and experiment. You can do it!

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