Right I'll try and not make this too long for you.
Basically, me and this girl get on really well at college - sit next to each other and always talking about college work and things outside college. She's 19 and I'm 18. Anyway she always seems to kind of flirt with me, like always finds an opportunity every lesson to pull her chair towards mine or vice versa and touching my legs with her feet. Now, she only does this to me, and doesn't speak to any of the other lads in our class - its like we are best buddies :) She will always wait for me after class, even if I'm the last one out as I usually am. It's just weird how close she seems to be to be (literally!). Like she will always stand next to me in the corridor and sometimes, she will come even closer to me - she is really messing with my head!
I don't know if I should do this or not because she has a boyfriend, but is it ok for me to ask her if she fancies a coffee or something after college one day, or is there anything else we could do or other places we could hang out? She told me on facebook tonight she would go to the cinema with me, but this would feel so awkward for me so I just don't know what to do.
I like her as a friend, well actually I fancy her as you've probably guessed :/) but I want to know my limitations. I can't get her out of my head!
I sooooo want to tell her how I feel about her, but this could just ruin everything :(
Any help is appreciated a lot :)
Thanks
By the way I also have her mobile number and facebook. Should I text her telling her I need to talk to her or something? :/ Or just text her saying how I feel? I really don't know what to do :/
All advice/tips very much appreciated!
Thank you :)
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ask her
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I think you would be safe in asking her for a coffee or something, i mean friends do that. It sounds like shes flirting with you so maybe you should just ask her how she feels about you, or even ask how how her boyfriends going? It might not be that serious.
I think you should tell her that you don't want to wreck your friendship though so that way she knows that you can still be friends, sometimes that's really important.
I think that coffee would be a great idea, take it slow. For all you know her and her bf could be in a rough patch getting ready to end, and you could be prince charming waiting to rescue her from her distress.
In my opinion, as a girl I wouldn't want some guys just jocking my nuts (excuse the french) I think if you really think you like this girl that you should just take it nice and slow and make sure she knows ur there.
Well me being a girl, if i was to be doing that i definitely might have some feelings for you, if you dnt feel comfortable asking me n person, text it to her or message her asking her if she likes you and if she confesses she does, then tell her how you feel. If she doesnt let her know the path you were being led y her and her actions, i really hope this helped :)
Dont come on strong by confessing your feelings. Kiss her if you are alone and you guys get flirty again. Act impartial to the result, meaning you dont care what happens after the kiss.
She has a boyfriend, she ain't married. I think you should ask her what she think of you first.
buy for her red apple or banana :)