Please help! Baby momma left me for another man & I still want her. What do I do.?
Okay, so me and my now ex girlfriend were together for a little over a year, we accidentally had a baby in the first few months. I stayed with her though her pregnancy. We had our fair share of relationship issues (insecurities, people interfering, money issues etc.) we had times where we had taken a break from one another. Recently we had broken up, but we had a serious talk about having our family back together & she said that we would be back together soon. Well the very next day she said she had found someone else & he is twice her age. (She's 19 he's 36). She's has blocked me from contacting her. I don't know what to do. Should I let her go? Or do I keep trying? I feel so lost and so hopeless...
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It's always hard to let anyone you care about go but you have to first realize that you are not letting her go to never see her again. You have a child together which I assume you will still be doing your father duties. That means you will always have a bond with her and if it's meant to be it will .
You should definitley keep trying! That child should have a good family, and be in contact with his or her biological father. Her pregnancy hormones might be causing her to make irrational desicions. You should also become more stable and be able to talk things out in a civil manner to show her that whatever insecurities there are, you can get past them, and that you have matured.
First off I feel really bad for you.
Let her know that its your child too, if she won't even let you be part of its like you may need to resort to legal actions.
As far as she goes she could very well be lying. She could have also been cheating this whole time ): let her know you still love her. Try to talk to her in person. Good luck
Let her go? Sounds like she is gone. Recommend a couple helpings of self esteem and some man up for nest time around. You might consider being a bit selective. Ya think?
Let her go. It may not seem like it now, but there are a TON of other women out there. It's hard bro. Just give it time. Also, you can never trust her. Let the healing begin!!!!!