I like this guy, but he has a girlfriend, should I tell him I like him?
I've been getting a lot of mixed signals from him. He likes to joke around with me and hits on me sometimes (playfully, I guess), and I've felt him staring at me and even caught him doing so a few times. Plus when I went out on a date with another guy, the one I like kept pestering me to tell him who it was, and when I get a phone call, he always asks, "was that your boyfriend?" like trying to get information out of me. I swear, if I didn't know he had a gf I could've sworn he likes me back, but now I don't know, and I'm usually good at this. We're gonna meet up with some friends this saturday night and I was thinking of telling him; not knowing is killing me. I've also been preparing myself for rejection. Anyway, just wanting some input.
Update:Lol, I knew that was gonna be my answer, I just needed someone else to tell me. Actually that's why I haven't said anything to him, I was thinking about his girl. I was in her place once and it didn't turn out so well XD Thanks everyone!
One more thing, how do I choose the best answer? I'm not sure how this site works, lol.
Answers & Comments
Ok couple of things here sweety. First off, he has a girlfriend, second off, would you want some girl coming in from the sidelines on your man? Just food for thought, because if you presue this guy, I can almost garantee you will be hurt soon enough, and ten times worse then you will hurt this girl, speaking from experiance, you reep what you sow!!!! Leave him alone, and find someone who isn't already taken!
Sweetie! I know you like him but so does his girlfriend and you should think about her feelings too! How would you feel? Maybe when he is single you should tell him! But dont make things complicated by telling him, now!
Do not tell him. This will put him in a very awkward position, and you really don't want to be "that" girl who ruins a relationship.
he has a gf so you should not interfere with that. it sucks that you like him and but find a guy that has no gf. and besides he has a gf and hes flirting with you. would you want that if you were his gf??
do what feels best. no matter what happens, it will be nice to know how he feels and just knowing will be better than stressing about it
no wait till he is single.