Why does he keep getting... hard?
Okay so im 14 + my boyfriends 15 we've been together over a year, and we've started making out... NOT SEX. quite often when we're making out he gets like an erection, i dont really mind and we joke about it but im wondering like... is he having weird thoughts or cant he prevent it? am i doing something wrong? we're not ready for sex and definitely won't have it underage.
Update:by the way, no harsh comments please, we are both intelligent people. we didnt kiss till 3 months in and have only been making out for about 3 months (so that was 10 months in).
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It's just something that happens to a lot to guys in general, especially ones around that age. It's very hard for a guy not to think about sex when they're "making out". Gals in general seem to think of it more as an emotional need, instead of sexual.
Sounds like a typical 15 yr old boy. Its natural and your doing nothing wrong!
Carry on joking about it and don't take it to serious. Wait till your ready, just because he is getting an erection does not mean he is ready.
He might be thinking about sex but he is 15, and is prone to do so. If he does think he is ready just explain that your not.
You're kissing with your boyfriend(probably cuddling, touching and grinding too) and you're complaining he's getting hard because of it? He's 15!!! When i was 15, i got an erection EVERY DAMN MORNING without fail. Sitting at the desk at school, see something vaguely shaped like boobs - BOOOM them hormones are racing. It's a natural thing. If you don't want to touch it - fair enough, leave it be and let him strum his trumpet when he gets home. But that's the whole point about sexual discovery - an erection doesn't mean sex. It can go from a little massaging, to full blown Oral(no pun intended). He's showing he is PHYSICALLY ready for sex, but just because his physical body is ready doesn't mean you have to have sex. Stop worrying about his ***** - and just enjoy the fact your boyfriend isn't poking you with it.
Hey Jack, im a 13yr old girl.you may not want to listen just because i am a girl but i know more than a person should about these kinda things.I have learned that happens many times a day while your going through your stages. Just think of it as the challenges of becoming a man. One day that problem with make you very happy. Contact me!!!!
Its normal my friend....you turn him on. The same way you get turned on sometimes when he kiss's you or touches you. Look at it playfully and you both are doing the right thing. I chose to wait till I was 17 and Im happy i did... i found the perfect person and couldn't be happier. Good Luck
lol hes still young and you can play with his u know but not sex yet. man i can't wait till im 15. but you seem very smart so dont do sex early.
Thats quite normal. There's really nothing he can do to control it. Just because he gets hard doesn't mean you have to have sex.
Pretty normal I would say. Sometimes a guy can't help it.
His penis doesn't care if you're going to have sex or not; making out gets him aroused.
Tiktaali is very correct ... his penis has a mind of it's own ... and he couldn't help it if he wanted.