May 2021 2 152 Report

What does it mean when someone constantly tries to "keep an eye" on you and they hide the fact that they do?

So I have this friend... We're both guys. Long story short, he was INCREDIBLY lovey-dovey with me (holding my hand, constantly saying "I love you," romantic hugs that were longer than a minute, would say stuff like "I wish I could just be in your arms forever" etc.) so I grew feelings for a guy for the first time. I told him and he said that was "just how our friendship was."

He's always had a habit of his that really bothers me because I've never seen anyone do this. Every time I gave him the silent treatment or was cold towards him (which was honestly frequent), he would scratch his head and then look at me for a quick second, or stretch and yawn and look at me while he was yawning, or just do something and while we was doing it he would take a very quick look at me.

Yesterday, I was with him and I just got pissed so I just gave him the silent treatment for a while because I needed to cool off. He would do the same thing again; constantly stretch and yawn to look at me, or scratch his face/head to look at me. And to get my attention he'll try to think of something to say.

Update:

was walking in the hallway across from me I could see him taking a quick look at me. And sometimes he'll just be looking at the TV and then turn around for a quick second to look at me and then look back.

Along with that it was almost like we were playing a "scratching" game... He would constantly scratch himself and I would scratch myself pretty frequently.

And this past week, I've noticed he acts different when he's alone with me versus when others are around,

Update 3:

and I've noticed he tries to touch me as little as possible.

I dunno... What could this possibly mean? I don't get it. What kind of person does this?

Thanks!

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