Should I break up with him?
We're in college and his friends kinda get jealous when he hangs out with me instead of them. The thing is he barely ever sees me. He sees me on Tuesdays, and then only stays for like an hour because his friends keep asking him to come hang out with him. Then we are supposed to see each other on Thursdays too, but the same thing happens.We haven't been alone in god knows how long. Now, every time we hang out at least one of his friends has to tag along. I know guys like to have guy time. I like to have girl time, but I would appreciate it if he would try a little harder to incorporate me into his life. It's like his friends have him whipped or something. They're all jealous.
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Sit down and tell him that he needs to balance time between you and his friends. Explain that you understand he wants time with his friends, you want to have time with your friends too! But you are a couple, you need to spent time together too. Suggest making two days a week 'our day' where you spend the day with eachother, seeing a film or going for a walk, anything you are both into. Then suggest that every once in a while you both should hang out together with his and your friends in a group. If he doesn't change his ways, he clearly doesn't think as much about you as he does his friends and it's time for him to grow up, and you to say goodbye and meet someone who will make time for you.
talk to him about how you feel and the reaction he gives you on the topic will shed some light on weather your relationship has a future or not