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It is a little uncomfortable and you need to take it slow the first couple of times.. I never bled at all. But if you do that is not what the pain is from. The pain is simply from the size of his penis being fit into an area that has not been stretched at all. If you've used a tampon of put your finger or anything else in there your hymen is already broken. Sex is a natural thing and a penis is supposed to go in there so it will be perfectly fine very quickly. You just need to take it very slowly and make sure there is enough lubrication.

Its different for every girl, personally it did her for me until about the third time, but speaking to my friends about it some say they didn't feel a thing others say it hurt a bit, so you won't know until you actually do it! Take it slowly for your first time, at your own pace, don't be pressured! You have to get used to something being there and allow your skin to stretch. You may also bleed the first time and maybe the second too, but it will clear up quickly! The bleeding is caused by the breaking of the hymen, which is a thin membrane inside the vagina. There's only a tiny bit of blood that comes out, although it may look a lot to you don't worry, again everyone is different you may not even bleed at all!

The hymen is a stretchy tissue and using a tampon rarely breaks it, although it is possible.

Also always use a condom, even if you are on the pill, there are sexually transmitted diseases out there and you can't tell who has one just by looking!

Good luck!

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I didn't have any pain at all my first time, not everyone does and i think that there is alot of hype about it happening no one i have spoken to said it hurt..... as long as things are done correctly i.e foreplay and perhaps some lube this should ease it, also if your tense then your muscles will tense up making it painful for entry,

don't forget the condom!!!!

P.s do you use tampons? i have heard that this can break your hymen, i would relax about it and don't expect it to hurt coz 9 times out of 10 it wont. xx

I hurts a lot the first time you have sex. Take it slow and if it does hurt too bad then don't do it.

I absolutely did not feel a thing. But I may have popped it using a tampon or something. Regardless I did not feel anything

I don't remember anything hurting so I guess either it was so bad that I blocked it from my memory but my I'm willing to bet that its most likely that I don't remember because it didn't hurt.

well yea it hurts but not that bad.

and after its popped (the 2nd time you do it) it doesnt hurt at all.

dont worry he sounds like a good guy for not pushing. you

just stay safe.

well at first if he takes it easy it will hirt a small bit whilst he starts off but when your broken in its great and you just get pleasure make sure hes easy on you though !!!!!!!!!!!!!

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it depends on your pain threshold i guess. don't worry, it's not unbearable or anything, it's fine after like a day.