PLZ ANWSER! Friend trying drugs what do I do?
Im friends with this guy 3 years older than me im in grade 8 he's in grade 11 he told me he's gonna take up smoking this Saturday we share everything I have show him my scars he has shown me his, the odd person says we have a seceret relationship but we r just good friends I really care about him he really cares about me, it's kinda like we are brother and sister. We have both gone though a lot in our lives but I don't think this is the way he can fix it because of what he's went through I know this won't be a 1 time occurrence I'm not about to show him the door because I truly care about him! I really need help on what to do to stop him because I'm not gonna let him screw his life with drugs. PLZ HELP
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My friends did this years back...
First, never try them yourself. You seem to know that though.
Express your concern to him. Don't just tell him not to do it, show him how concerned you are and how YOU do not want him to do it. Explain your feelings. Tell him this matters to you, because you care about him, and will always be there for him, and that this is a destructive choice in the long run. Your concern is truly admirable. Tell him also everyone tries them wants to give them up. I only know a few really messed up people who enjoy abusing drugs, but it's not the drugs themselves they like, only that they can control and corrupt people through them. Drugs are essentially a trap!
If he does them anyway, he will get tired of them and want to stop, but that is not easy. Just be supportive then.
Okay okay calm down man. The best way to get through this is to simply imply to her you were not trying to offend her in any way shape or form. It was just a random act of fun that you wanted to express. I personally think she's a little too sensitive to be getting mad over "kupa (poop)". Kindly just apologize to the the nicest way you can! If she's not understanding she's insecure....