I'm 14 but I'm going to be 15 next month, but I look a lot younger and a lot of people don't believe me when I tell them how old I am, they think I'm 12. And before you blame it on my clothes, I never wear skirts or even v necks. Most of the time I wear shirts that are too big for me and meant for boys and normal jeans and shoes. But all the time, old men in their 40s and above always hit on me and it makes me really uncomfortable. I guess the only reason I can think of them doing this is because my measurements which are 37-28-39, but it isn't like I can just change the way that my body is and why should I be ashamed of the way I was born? But still, it isn't like I'm showing off my body at all, and if you just look at my face I look really young... why are these guys so disgusting? It's like I can't even go anywhere without getting harassed by men that are way older than me and it makes me really scared to go anywhere alone and it's like I can't have a life.
Update:see, and this is why i can't ask for help, because people don't even believe me. if you really think that i would be joking about this, just remember that i am genuinely afraid for my own safety and if you aren't going to help me then why would you say anything at all?
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Okay people, most of you need to calm down with personal attacks. FYI girls that are 14 years old can and some do have those measurements. It is called early development and there are plenty of teenagers that do have the body of a woman.
To answer your question, old men probably hit on you because they might assume that you are older based on your body type even if you have a baby face. It is quite common (and gross) for men to start objectifying women at an early age even as young as you are so it is not out of the ordinary. Try to ignore it and do not engage these men if they do try to talk to you. It will get easier as you grow older to be more comfortable with attention even if it is unsolicited.
37-28-39 at 14....?
All can do is LAUGH because 37 around the chest is huge and has ZERO to do with breast size. 28 isn't all that slim in a female body and 39 is huge UNLESS you are about 5' 8" tall or taller.
If you are going to FIB you might want to do a bit better calculations beforehand. And as far as so many 40 year old MEN making sexual advances on you I would ask where you live, a prison within the pedophile section? Most "men" are descent people and guardians of women rather than predators.
The game you are attempting to play little girl is dangerous, unjust and highly immature. Not funny!
Your measurements are 37-28-39 and you say you are 14 and look 12. No dear. If those measurements are true you look like a 24 - 30 year old. It is very rare that a 14 year old has those measurements. Older men are looking at what is perceived to be a grown woman not a child.
I'm sorry. Guys are creepy sometimes. Adult men should know better than to make you feel like that, but some of them just don't know better. It's not you, it's them.
Just know that they're wrong and take care of yourself. If it ever gets scary, to the point that you need to talk to someone about it, then please do.
As a guy, I'm truly apologize that some guys are like this. They're not all like that.
Maybe you look older than your age. I've seen a 15 year old that personally to me looked like she was like 20..soo
While going out you need to check yourself there is something which are doing something different which attracting this age guys.
maybe they arent even looking at you...
You don't sound 14, please seek psychological help.
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