there is this guy i like. we're real good friends. i asked him out one day and he thought i was just joking. but later he told one of my friends that he didn't want to be more than friends with me for fear of ruining our friendship. but he does things that sort of lead me on. when we went skating, he kept trying to hold me. when we talk on the phone, he's always trying to bring up the whole me liking him issue. its driving me nuts and i'm not sure if i should kick his butt or just ignore it all. what do you think? does he secretly like me? or is he just into mind games?