Please help me be happy.....?
This is going to be a bit of a long question/explanation cuz u have to understand the whole story......
My ex and I broke up about a month ago, and I've been MISERABLE since. Mostly because of how he was treating me after the break up. One week he was cruel, he had another girl he was messing around with, then the next week he comes and apologizes and I say we can only be friends NOTHING else cuz of how bad he hurt me.... he then went on to ask if we could be friends with benefits, I said no BCUZ I only wanted to be friends, he then agreed to the fact that that would mess up a friendship..... then a week or so later I find out that he's spending all his time with this REALLY young chick (he's 22, she's 18, I'm 24) after he'd promised to be there for me and that he really cared about me still.... THEN I find out she's a new roommate at the place I use to LIVE with him, and NOW I find out they may be dating..... this is only 3 weeks after breaking up with me...
Update:Just the other day when he was all drunk he was texting me saying he missed me and yada yada.... this is after he said he hated me just two days before that AND now that he's got this new chick.....
what the CRAP is his problem, if he has this new chick why on EARTH would he tell me he still misses me????? ANd why won't he just LEAVE ME ALONE.....
I want to be happy again!!!!!
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Girl forget this dumb a** he only told you that he missed you because he just wanted to get a little something something. Leave him with the eighteen year old tramp, and go out and have fun with your friends and forget about him, you just need to go out and find yourself a real "Man" he is going to treat you with respect and isn't just looking for that something something. It will be much better if you forget that foo and move on with your life.
BD
Sounds like he wants his cake and cupcake at the same time! You should move on and ignore all of his lame attempts and excuses to draw you back in. If he cared he would not hurt you. Let the new girl deal with his issues. Start going out with your positive upbeat friends, have some fun and he will be a distant memory! Hang in there and chin up!
First of all stop making yourself visible or in a position to hear what this guy is doing. Once you two broke it off, he treated you cruel, then had another girl, etc. He clearly does not know what the hell he wants and it sure is not you at this moment in time. Stop worrying about what he is doing and with who he is doing it with. Concentrate on you. Put yourself first; do things that you like to do to make yourself happy; keep yourself occupied by spending time with family or friends. It takes time to get over someone. Give yourself the time; get on with your life.
the creep wants to two time.
go cold turkey on him.
he ain't worth a dime.
easier said than done.
get yourself a friend you can call whenever you get the craving.
go for a drive; anything, but do not go back to him.
i'm in the same boat. dated for 2 years.
i know what you're going through.
worse things have happened.
hang in there, and good luck.
there's light at the end of the tunnel.
seems like hes trying to get over you by being with another chick. filling the void. i say you ignore any attempts he has to get back with you or even communicate with you so he can be off your mind. and in the mean while you should find other guys.
Sounds like he drinks a lot huh? His mixed emotions (and yours) are coming out of a bottle . Be done with his drunk a$$ and move on already. Don't let his drinking problem be YOURS
Dump this loser quick! Find someone who will love only you. There are lots of really nice guys out there that will treat you right.
hi katia pm me
you make yourself happy not others