we've been going out for quite a while now, but his parents only want him dating other asian girls since they're strict. i'm full white and a little armenian and have no idea what to do! any do's, don't's, or advice? all appreciated!
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don't be worried, i don't think there's anything wrong with dating someone from another place and another color. If they are real filipinos and raised here in Philippines hehe. i bet their much excited than what you are thinking. Try to say this phrases when you meet them.
Kamusta po? = how are you? (po - adding 'po' makes courtesy)
Ma-gan-dang araw po. = Good day!
Salamat po = Thank you.
Paalam po = Byebye.
You'll leave a great impression if you try to speak a tagalog word, even if it doesn't sound perfect.
cause filipinos find it really cute when someone tries to speak their language from another tongue. ^^
Goodluck sayo!
paalam.
Honestly you have to prep your parents for this ahead of time. They are not going to like her though. You've only been dating 2 months as well so I think it might be a bit too early. Either way work on that story. Obviously tell your parents she's pregnant and don't work out someway that her spouse died in combat....but feel free to completely avoid that bit about a one night stand. That automatically tells most parents that she's immature, irresponsible, and many other negative things. Do tell them that you are dating her. She is pregnant but you would really like them to meet the girl you are dating and see her for who she is not just as a pregnant woman. Ask them to be open minded and show her the love of Christ. They are going to judge her but the best you can hope for is that they are polite and try to get to know her while you are there. My 2 cents is that this is a bad idea. I wouldn't do it unti you guys had been together 6 months-10 months. If it's still working out then, with the baby and all that, introduce her to the family.
Good Lord. When I was younger I brought a white girl I was seeing home to meet my mother and after that failed attempt I never brought any girls home again. Filipino parents are messed up sometimes. Some are cool and don't care at all. But some are just 3rd world mental.
Sorry, this probably doesn't help. Sometimes they're beyond impressing.
Not other Filipinos? But other Asians only?
Thats called racism.
Considering their lack of discipline compared to other Asian ethnicities, I am surprised they consider themselves such a integral part of it.
treat them the same as strict white folks aka conservatives/Republicans, family with old lineage, family with class
I dont think his parents want to meet u,
u can keep going out with him but dont bother his parents if they dont want to meet u!
Every question I answer "cute was banned rrRrr" has already answered it, lol.
I agree with him.
lmao asians think white women are bunch of loose sl*ts dats y his parents wouldnt approve of their kids dating a white girl
be yourself. be nice. don't say anything to offend them. if they dont like you for you then theres nothing you can do.
this is why racism is so ******* stupid