My ex(let's call him Tom) and I dated off and on for 5 years. About a year and a half ago I finally got tired of him being an *** and never knowing what he wanted. I left him and even when he tried to contact me I ignored him. I got in a relationship about 6 months after the break up with this new wonderful guy I meet, but after a year of being together I recently found out he was cheating. I had been wanting closure from my ex Tom. So me being sad and stupid I messaged him. Since that night we have been talking and hanging out. He told he liked me and that I had changed. I told him he was confused from not seeing each other in over a year... Point is I slept with him even when I knew I didn't feel love for him anymore. In other words I used him, but he finally said he wouldnt sleep with me anymore or kiss me or anything until I was completely over my resent ex. We still hang out and talk but I don't know. I feel like I'm just confused if he likes me or not.