i have a friend who i never see anymore, should i just tell her i dont wanna be friends anymore?
I've had this friend since fourth grade, her name is Krissy. And once we entered middle school you get teams that split you up from other people, as in you dont have the same classes as them and you dont really get to sit with the other people on other teams during lunch. I was on team 3 and she was on team 1, then i was on team 2 in seventh grade and she was on team 4. I never talk to her anymore nor see her, and when i see her in the hallways, we act like we dont even know each other. As in we just continue walking without even saying hi or smiling at each other. Whenever i see her with her new friends, i get upset, she is my best friend but i dont want to have anything to do with her. Because when i see her i get sad and depressed thinking its my fault we arent as close. Should I just tell her i dont wanna be friends anymore and if not what should i do? HELP!
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ummmm, why are you asking this question and still thinking about it?
i think you wanna hang out with your friend !
like, you don't see your friend anymore so theirs no reason on telling her anyways.
ask yourself why you care so much to tell her ... you dont even see her ?
honestly, you want to be her friend....
you could try and be the one to break the ice, if you were good friends before than the spark could still be there. Next time you see her in the hall smile and wave, or say hello or whatever, make the effort first before you decide that she isn't worth it, sometimes fate works in funny ways. Maybe you weren't meant to be friends, if you do this then at least you will know that you went down trying, and that it wasn't your fault that it didn't work.
You should pull her aside one day and tell her how you feel like you two aren't close anymore and you miss talking to her. Sometimes two friends just need some time where they hang out and bond and get to know each other better. Don't stop being friends with her if she is willing to become good friends with you again.
hope this helps
and good luck!
I know it's hard but friends come and go.. you can try to talk to her if you want but I don't know. If you don't talk she'll just fade away and everything will be fine.
i would still be nice to her if say she walked up to u, u dont have to say u dont want to be friends anymore, you can still be friends just more distant than before