I feel like I need to pee during oral sex, but don't orgasm?
After my boyfriend has been giving me oral sex for a few minutes, I get a strong sensation, like having to urinate VERY badly. It's a god feeling, however, and after some research it looks like this feeling usually comes right before an orgasm. The problem is, I haven't had an orgasm! Does anyone know what could be going on? Thanks so much!
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If you're afraid of peeing then, that is the hold back. Just know you are not going to pee. You're about to ejaculate. Yes, women can ejaculate. It will exit via the urethra but, it is not pee. It's PSA or prostate specific antigen. It's produced by the Skene's glands or U-spot. They are located right at the opening of the vagina and urethra, hints the name. Just talk to your boyfriend ahead of time and tell him. It could be a little, it could be more. It is normally colorless, odorless and tasteless. But every woman is different. When you feel that urge, go with it. Let the fluid out, well, warn him before. =~D You may want to moan to really get into it. It's up to you.
Also, do you like toys? You can get a vibrator and tell him when he giving you oral to sneak a little vib to your clitoris without you knowing. A sneak attack. Just wear a blind fold if needed and tell him not to let you know at all about it. Using a powerful one on the tip of clitoris will work. If you are afraid of buying a toy, there is one thing that will work. You just have to be open to the suggestion. An Oral-B Pulsar toothbrush. Yes, toothbrush. The Pulsar using vibrations instead of moving parts and they are quite, cheap and powerful. Buy one just for play and touch the back of the head--bristles away from you-- to your clitoris. It wont take long.
the could pee oftentimes lasts everywhere from some seconds to three minutes earlier orgasm, I consistently sense that severe could pee a jiffy earlier I orgasm, the suited element to do is empty your bladder earlier you enable him eat you out, and if liquid comes out of you anyhow do not problem which will greater then probable be lady ejaculate yet shop a towel around you in simple terms in case.
You should spend some time on your own to learn your own body and how it functions. Once you know how to have orgasms by yourself, you'll know what to expect and what movements to make with your body to help it along. You may need to add some pelvic thrusting and tensing and releasing your PC muscles to get you there.
This is exactly what happens to me.. Nothing is wrong with us..
I guess our boyfriends just need to do a bit more down there?
you get really close but just don't reach the orgasm