i m a 17 year old gud luking shy boy..actually my teeth r little bit outwards and d gap is visible from d side face....
this is d main probs .of my shynes..i just cant talk to anyone with eye contact ..even with ma father ...i m shy of dance ..n specially talking to gals
n otherthing ..
i m a bit confused tat am i gud luking or ugly?
for ex sometimes in skool or society ..any one of ma enemy says me
have u ever luked ur face even once in d mirror ..then i feel very sad .n on d other hand sometimes ma other friendz says me that u luk gud yaar...u shud have a gf
pls help me ..in these 2 things..
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This good looking aspect is temporary thing of a whole deeper issue.
Shyness usually arises from something that has totally nothing to do with it.
I should say these things are temporary or false shyness, no matter whether you're short or tall or whatever your features, the basic thing comes from a fact that is known as inferiority complex
As a person you are your own self, you cant really do much about your features can you?
Okay you'd've liked to be good looking but why should that be such a thing that it should make you feel low?
Just think like this...... you want to be good looking and have girl friends, why?so that others dont make fun of your looks?,but its not just good looking but perfect looking, why do you want to be perfect,since if others make fun of you it would mean that you arent perfect and if you arent perfect , it will plunge you back to your inferiority complex
You will always find that there is something to be made fun of no matter he is good or handsome he is
Also what is good for one person may differ and vary.Its a relative term
Just say this to yourself "I would certainly like to be handsome, but since this is what I've got I'll make the best out of it, let me not be unfair to myself"
You can try all these surgeries and things to make yourself better if you can afford it, but the lack of it shouldnt make you feel bad
hey dude, y bothering about what others are thinking about u. everyone is special in this world. never ever think negative again. one is not essentially attractive by his outlook but the way u are doing things and your character should be remarkable one, that's all. I'm sure u are a gud guy. take care.
first things first, you should probably know who to spell at age 17.. get that down and then come back so i can understand what your asking.
you need to spell out the words. i can't understand what your trying to say. After you've done that, then people will answer your question.