how to make my husband intersted on me?
We are married in 2008. We did not have much understanding in the beginning. So we end up in misunderstanding often. He use to shout at me but I won't open my mouth. If I speak something against him, then that's all. So we did not have sex regularly. So no baby. After 4 years of marriage I got conceived( accidentally). Now I have a boy baby aged 1 and half years. Then we gained understanding gradually. We loved each other. My husband also loves me a lot. He has told me many times and he will never forgive me to anybody. He use to appreciate me to all his relatives. But still we don't have sex. It has become even worse now. In the beginning we would have sex once or twice in a year. Now.. not even that. I've even asked him openly that I need him. But no reply and no response. Otherwise he's too good. But I need him. Very badly. What can I do??
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I just answered a question from a married man who is secretly gay and keeping that information from his wife. I told him it wasn't fair to keep his preference for men a secret from his wife, that he needed to tell her and let her decide if she wants to spend her life with a man who isn't turned on by her. Maybe it was your husband.
Probably not, but my point is that men have strong sexual needs. If he does not want you even after you have directly asked him for sex, then he probably isn't sexually attracted to you. But please understand that It isn't anything you're doing wrong and please don't think that there's anything wrong with you or that you're not sexy enough. This is about him only. You deserve a fulfilling sex life and as a woman you need to feel desirable to your mate. This is not optional, and even the Bible says that married people have a duty to have sex regularly with their spouses, and OK's divorce for anyone whose spouse doesn't provide sexually.
Confront him ASAP!
You should work on your friendship. Spend more time together. Take a walk after dinner. Find a hobby you can enjoy together. Do something that he likes, even if you don’t (like watch hockey games) simply so you can be together.Often couples get into a rut where they spend their lives doing errands and watching TV. That isn’t going to help your relationship. If you want to spice things up, don’t look at the bedroom. Look at the gym. Or the ice rink. Or the restaurant. Do stuff together. Cultivate a real relationship. Start talking again.Often this helps you feel connected. Don't nag him for sex let it happen, Be open to try new thing's maybe porn might glossy it up.…Best of Luck
I would have a very SERIOUS conversation with him
A sexless marriage life is not complete
I would tell him how I feel and I would also tell him to see a medical doctor to find out why he as no sex drive
There something wrong with him or he is cold
but did he ever had a sex drive ? If not maybe he is one rare man who is asexual
48 yrs of marriage
Try learning English maybe?
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