How do I talk to my boyfriend about this?
We're in college and we only see each other on Tuesdays for a couple hours, and sometimes on Thursday for a couple hours. He hangs out with his friends everyday of the week. When I try to see him, his friends always convince him to hang with them instead. I wanna confront him about always putting his friends before me, but i don't wanna sound like a possessive girlfriend or something. How do I talk to him about this in a civil way?
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Dont tell him. Just invite him over or to do something with you more often. But let him have his guy time too. But if your invites are rejected and he continues to put his friends b4 u all the time then dump him. Cause who wants a man who either only wants to see his gf at most 2 times a week or cant tell his friends no!
Tell him you were disappointed you couldn't see him a bit more, as I think that's what you want. At this moment, his friends are ahead of you by a stretch, since you only spend 4 hours a week together. That's casual to me. If he does not want to see you more than that then he'll tell you in his answer.
just talk to him, and dont sound clingy. just say "i just wanna hang out for a little bit" or offer to all do something together with his friends. every girl needs time with her guy. however, guys need time to be guys. so go hang out with some of your friends on the weekends to get your mind off it.
Well sounds like he's gay if he would rather be with his friends than with his girlfriend. Don't worry ditch the loser i'll spend my time with you.
Just tell him how you feel.. and also try to come upi with things that will compromise both of you times.. like say maybe you could hangout with him and his friends (idk if your comfortable with that) or if you could just hangout one more day.