How Can I Improve My Self-Esteem?
I've been battling with this for years. I've achieved SO MUCH in my life and am so proud of my accomplishments, yet I still struggle socially and really desire a woman to share my life with. I have a few friends and am told that I am a likeable person. Yet no matter what I try I can't seem to battle feeling like no one really wants to be around me and that I'm not really liked. I'm lonely.
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You should try and put yourself out there more. You'd be surprised how much of that is in your own head and you may just be too hard on yourself.
I understand exactly how you feel as I used to think the same way.
Other then not having a woman in your life, are you generally happy? Do you enjoy your waking up and living the life you have? If you don't, then how can you expect somebody else to?
If you are bored and in a rut, then maybe change things up a bit. Join a club, sport or take a class just to get yourself out there.
If you're struggling with the social aspect of being able to hold a conversation try reading a help book. I'd recommend something like 'The fine Art of Small talk' or 'How to instantly connect with anyone'.
Try to get up everyday and say to yourself : " I am young . I am beautiful ." about 10 times spreaded out throughout the day should do the trick
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