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Do you think he is getting bored of me sexually or doesn't find me very attractive anymore?
I was over my guy's house this weekend and I asked if we could have sex at least 2 times, and he didn't want to either time. Usually, its always him that proposes the idea, but he didn't mention it at all this time around. Furthermore, on sat. night, he asked if I would be interested in having sex while videotaping (not recording...just watching ourselves go at it like on a live-feed webcam)...and I told him maybe some other time. Do you think he is getting bored of me? Please don't tell me to just ask him....tell me what you'd think if you were me....
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1 rule - DO NOT ask a guy for sex. This makes you seem desperate.
Instead, you could start being playful and frisky and see what happens. If he doesn't want sex, that's fine. Like girls, guys aren't ALWAYS in the mood, that doesn't mean he is bored of you.
As for videotaping, that's always a no-no, unless you COMPLETELY trust and love him and have been dating for a long time. In my personal opinion, I don't think he is bored of you, I think there is something on his mind. Ask him if everything is alright! You also don't NEED to have sex, try doing other fun things together! If your whole relationship revolves around sex (kinda sounds like it does..) then eventually he will get bored. I suggest trying new and exciting things together (non-sexual) to bring more excitement to your relationship.
Perhaps, or maybe he just wants to make the experience a little different.
I mean it could be that he is just bored & just want to spice things up.