Do most guys do this?
My boyfriend of two years and I are very close. Sometimes I wonder if we're a little too close. I'm a very private person. I get embarrassed about things like...people hearing me going to the bathroom or farting in public. My boyfriend, on the other hand, has no qualms about these things, and when I visit him, he will even go so far as to ask me to bring him toilet paper, or a magazine, or...on top of that...have normal, everyday conversations with me WHILE HE'S GOING POOP! Is this normal male behavior that I just need to get used to??
Update:I'm not really uncomfortable...and I'm glad that he's that comfortable with me. I just think it's odd...I guess because I've never been in a relationship like the one I'm in with him. And I don't know anybody else who does this.
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Yes, and truthfully it established the fact that he is totally comfortable around you. Which you should be happy for.
I personally don't like anyone else in the restroom when I'm going poop, that's my private time. But bringing someone toilet paper is normal, I mean seriously you mean to tell me you never went to the restroom did you're business and then realized, Oh crap I'm out of T.P. ? easier to ask someone to grab you some t.p. if someone is around, Versus wadeling out while someone is around and grabbing the t.p. that's gross, I'm not sure how i would react if someone and their dirty butt came into the hallway to grab some t.p. ewwwww. I think its normal for him cuz he doesn't see the problem he is very comfortable with hI'mself, where as you still have some growing to do. what are you in your 20's get past 30 and im telling you, you'll probably be exhibitionist material. We all grow with age and so do our thoughts and ideas on everyday life. Give it some time.
Sounds like u are not comfortable with him. If u love a person u will do anything... go with the flow girl, if u see urself marrying this guy get used to these things, guys can be discusting sometimes. Yes this is very normal.
I don't do those things. But i'm not liek most guys. My mom says i'm even more mature than my stepdad. I'm just 16 too. From waht I'm hearing of the description..it sounds like he's rude in that manner. I always get self concious about the stuff taht you get embarrsed about too lol. You might want to talk to him. Somewhere in private.
I think it is. Going to the bathroom is a natural thing and farting well everyone does it. He must feel real comfortable to do it around you.
We all have different personality. Your example is not only for a few guys but for seldom gals as well. But for most guys, we really don't care much about what other people would think, its a human mentally to think of what others would be thinking about yourself. Afterall, what they think of me will not affect my way of living.
Well I'm not sure if it normal
But my ex did things like that.
You have to feel comfortable around someone to do thing like that
gross. it's normal for some people i guess. personally, i think bathroom time is private and should be kept so. once you see your bf/gf dropping a deuce, that's when it's time to drop them.
its normal thats how guys r u gona have 2 get use 2 it
LOL yeah that's not uncommon but if you're uncomfortable then tell him, or just get used to it