i feel really awful because the last couple of days my baby has been crying virtually non stop because she want me to hold her, im not well and iyelled at her a couple of times because she was changed, fed, watered and given water as well, she didnt want anything just to beheld and i am exhausted but now i feel so badbecause i know she just wanted a hug and for me to carry her but if i keep it up it will get worse but i dont know if im coping?
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Your not a bad mum, Every mum feels like that once in a while :) I have a 2 year old and she trys my patience alot! But you find ways to deal with your stress... Speak to your healthvisitor if your really worried she may give you some tips to de-stress x
It's okay to feel frustrated. However, the next time you feel like you're about to boil over...take a step back and take a few deep breaths.
Yelling back, as you are aware, will not solve the issue. It may actually make things worse if you yell too loudly. She could be experiencing pain of some kind.
It is normal to get frustrated - don't worry! If you start to feel overwhelmed or frustrated just call a grandmother or aunt/uncle or friend to come spend an hour or so with your baby. My mother used to do that for me and I'd take just 1 hour and have a nice long bath and relax and be ready to go. Ask for help... you don't have to be super mom!
I think you are probably a very stressed out mother who needs a break before she snaps.
Get a baby sitter, or ask a relative to baby sit for a night or afternoon.
Relax and have some you time.
you're abode incredibly plenty all day, daily with the toddlers? you lose interest in all probability, being abode perpetually, suitable? and not attending to verify every physique else? same along with your toddlers, no count how previous or youthful they are. your toddlers LOVE YOU and love being with you, yet in simple terms like numerous well-known person it gets uninteresting/stressful being with an identical person all day daily. don't experience undesirable approximately it. approximately them being extra content fabric fiddling with one yet another... it somewhat is stable for them to play devoid of Mommy soaring perpetually (as long as you're observing them for the reason that they are nevertheless so little, of direction you knew that) and it somewhat is stable that they get alongside. some advice? Take them on outings (i.e. going to the playground, walks contained regionally with the littlest one in a stroller, storytime on the library). Get an afternoon each and every week or as a manner to your self... organize to have somebody (the two a babysitter or a grandma) watch the toddlers for the two the morning, afternoon, or the two so as which you get to accomplish a little grown-up stuff devoid of the toddlers and that they get to be with individuals.
Your not a bad mom, babys cry just to cry. They dont always need somthing, and when you tried everything and your getting stressed just put the baby in its crib walk away and take a couple breathes.
Its perfectly normal for a baby to cry, thats all they what to do, it would be weird if it wasent crying all they time ;)
All moms lose it once in awhile, some more than others :) Next time you're feeling that angry, walk away, go scream into your pillow. Babies cry, some more than others. Maybe she has colic or maybe she's not feeling well.
You don't give a baby water, you give it breast milk or formula even when dehydrated. It's normal to feel overwhelmed. This constant crying and needing to be held is a very normal stage of development. I've found it best to hold them. This too shall pass :)
im very lucky my baby never crys unless he wants a bottle or is bored or needs nappy changing or very tired .. ive heard loads of babys are cryers and cry for nothing at all maybe she is ill,, dont shout at her u will only make her worse :(
we have all been there and lost our temper at some point. sometimes babies cry........for no reason (all 3 of mine did). as long as after yelling at her u calmed down then dont worry ur not a bad mum ur a human mum!!