Okay so first off I will say I am considered to be really attractive to other people. Second off I am horribly shy. When people talk to me I kinda just have word vomit. While I do kind gestures and try to be friendly I know some people think I'm judgmental unfortunately. I'm seventeen and I'm starting my senior year. While it's sad to say, I have never been on a date nor even been kissed. I kinda just want to make some guy friends and maybe start going on some dates or at least be more comfortable around them.
P.S if there are any guys around my age that could give advice on this it would be extremely helpful. But all advice is welcomed.
Thanks!
Jacqueline
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Hi Jacqueline! Guys happen to like girls that can carry themselves, approach them with confidence. Just try going up to some guy you would like to befriend and introduce yourself with a smile. Gets me all the time :). I'm sure you can make friends, and are a beautiful bubbly person. Good luck!
Start off in a group, for example, at lunch, ask your friends if you guys can eat with a group with a few guys (and tell them why if youre comfortable) and that will help you ease into it. Also, if possible you can talk to those guys in class (if you have any with them) basically, just try to be a little more outgoing!!! This is how I met a lot of my girl friends...hope I helped
There's a fine line between "girlfriend" and "girl friend"
OMG gay guys are amazing! One of my closest friends is gay (at least i think he is) and it makes it so much easier to talk to him and everyone around me. I'm not all akward cause he's one the same level as the girls... like I can even talk about shopping to him and he enjoys the converation more then me. Anyways I just try to be myself. If a guy says somthing to me I just answer it honastly and cutely
Just try to become good friends with them, if they "make a move" for example, just back away. If this "move making" is constant that means they want to be more than friends, in which case you should decide on your own if you want this guy, or if you should get away.
Just talk about guy stuff or if you have a guy friend who has a lot of guy friends, then hang out with him.
To be more comfortable with the opposite sex find a gay one it helps so much. A lesbian brought me out of my fear of women.