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You're only 14, trust me you have so much time. I know at your age it might seem like you'll never get a girlfriend because you probably started seeing people "go out" at 10 or 11 years old, so now that you're a teenager you feel like you're weird or abnormal for not being in a relationship. Trust me, that's not the case. Those 10 year old who had "girlfriends or boyfriends" were just silly little children. Relationships usually don't start getting serious at all until you reach high school. I'm not sure if you're in 8th grade or if you're a freshman but believe me, you have so many years ahead of you. I didn't have my first serious boyfriend until I was 15 and that's pretty young still, but I remember at 12, 13, even 14 I felt like such a loser because my classmates were all ahead of me. My half sister who is now almost 23 has never had a boyfriend and is a successful college graduate with a high paying job. My aunt didn't have her first boyfriend until she was 19 and she got married at 42. I used to be friends with a girl who was BEAUTIFUL and she's now 17 and has never had a real relationship. I could name so many other people as well. As far as your looks go, you will grow into yourself. Everyone goes through a gawky stage. Remember, if you feel bad about your weight you can always do something to change it. The braces will come off eventually, and glasses? So what! My boyfriend wears glasses and to me he's gorgeous. If you really feel bad about them you can wear contacts, but I promise that isn't something that you should be ashamed about just because it a stereotypical "geek" thing. My point is though, a lot of people at your age are shallow and immature, and even when you get older you will probably encounter people who will pick on you or make fun of you because they are insecure themselves and have nothing better to do. As you get older, whether it's in a year or 10 years, I promise you WILL find a girl who will notice you and like you for you. Sometimes it just takes a while for someone to see how special and unique you are, but you will not be alone forever. I promise you that.

Noah, OF COURSE YOU WILL :D

listen...having a girlfriend never meant being handsome...i mean LOTS of really not good-looking people found someone like their solumate, and from ur discription i dn't think u that not good-looking :)i can guarantee you that if u have other talents like having a great ear inlistening to problems or a wise tongue in advising...or even great feelings in your heart even if they were never adressed to any girl, u'd have a great girl like you one day...actually i believe that maybe if ur soul was true maybe u r being kept for a girl that only u would match

i know my word would seem a little fairy-tale-like...i mean im 16 and it really is not depending on personal experience but i just know it...i guarantee u it would happen

in the mean time, i advise u to take up some talent or ability and try to improve it...i mean work for ur target and that would a little distract u from that point...leave it till it comes by itelf and don't spend everytime seeking it..it'll just come, i promise u :D

Yes you will im sure when i was 14 i was overweight and 5'6 and i wasnt the most popular kid at school either , im 21 now and ive had my number of gfs so im sure youl attract many ladies throughout your youth. ;)

I think you will find someone. Just ignore the people who pick on you. It doesn't matter how you look on the outside, it matters if your a good person on the inside. I think you will find a girlfriend. Be nice to people and eventually they will see what a great person you are.

You will find someone when:

1. You get confidence (try eating right, exercising, doing things you love doing and are good at)

2. You talk to women

3. You ask out women

4. You choose good women

5. The time is right

You are 14 years old...you have DECADES of living to do. Do not think you are doomed because you cannot get a gf at 14. You will be fine.

Yes, just dont try to date out of your league. Find a girl that will be attracted to you and that you have common interests with. Also, dont wait for a girl to ask you out. You need to approach girls, we usually dont do the asking out. So if you are shy and wont ask a girl out, then NO you will never get a gf. Get over your shyness and ask someone out, then YES you will be fine and I hope you find a good woman who is your soulmate! You are only 14, you still have plenty of time. Good Luck!

you will find someone dont worry as you get older girls dont look for looks its personality as thats the most important this, looks is just a bonus. dont worry im sure your handsome and a lovely kid. i believe there is someone out there for everyone

YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE DON'T WORRY ! AND FORGET THOSE BULLIES