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Sometimes, the way we've been for a while is what we become accustomed to or are more comfortable with. Change isn't always so easy.

I think, YES, Suffering Becomes the Basic Liking of Our self. So, when ever We Resist to Move away from It , It will Continue with US and making US as Irritable Persons. So, It is Better to Allow them as It is, without Worrying.It will move with US, without Bothering.

It seems you have deep-seated issues that need to be resolved (and that have nothing to do with philosophy), causing you to feel the need to suffer.

because they see them selves as ugly and have to live with it.