Why are there so many overweight girls out there with double standards?
I mean,I see it all the time. I am a bartender and I see it all the time. Overweight girls complain about how guys are so shallow. But then guys approach them at my club and they turn them down saying "EWWWW he's too fat" or "he is not attractive" or "he's bald,yuck"
Are they really trying to say " I want the cute,well built,tanned,football player to see me for who I am inside while I reject who I want to reject for their looks"?
Update:P.S. maybe when guys are shallow its a subconcious thing as well.
If we are ALL guilty of something,then NONE of us should be judged for it.
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That is sooo true.
I am a bartender as well and I see the same thing all the time.
My take is,if you want something,go for it. You are not wrong for wanting what you want,but do NOT hate on those who dont want you for their own reasons.
Yes. I think you pretty much hit the nail on the head. Being overweight or unattractive doesn't change a persons perspective on the world. A skinny supermodel will like the same type of guy as a not so skinny girl will. People can be confusing, and many of us can mistake the shallowness in ourselves for the same thing in others.
Well even though they are overweight they are still regular girls. Almost all girls want the hot popular looking guys. They also hate it when guys are shallow. Most of the time they don't even realize that they are being shallow with a guy, it's a subconscious thing.
And they are looking for a quality guy at a bar? Seems as if after a drink or two those fat, unattractive, bald men would look a bit better. Remember those cute, well built tanned football players are looking for cute, well built tanned women too.
If u particularly like her u would help her paintings out considering the fact that ur so in shape. Get her to paintings out with u! it might desire to be exciting ..talk at the same time chortle and bathe and then grab a chunk to eat some the place healthful like subway lol practice her healthful behavior to stick together with her. she can company up appropriate away :p if she does not then pass on tell her how u sense xoxo livi
LOL I love you commentry,
I face the same problem with the women I work with - they are just shallow people and have use their weight issue to gain pitty and attention, just as shallow as the guys who regject them
its a vicsious circle
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We all want the fancy convertible, but we don't want to be judged by what we wear.
That's why they are overweight and drinking. .
you got it as none of us see ourselves as we truly are