If you feel that you can trust her later, or that she would be willing to fix the relationship, as in give up on the other guy, and just love you for the rest of her life, then I would say try and fix it. But if she doesn't feel that way, then I would suggest to try and move on. You are not married right now, so if you do not trust her you do not have to stay with her. I think that you deserve someone better, who will actually treat you right, so I would vote A. As in, you may not meet someone when you go up there, because God has someone special for you, for a certain time, and sometimes you have to date the wrong people to know what you are looking for in the end. :) Though you may meet someone if you decided to go on vacation. If I were you, I would probably try and stay friends with her though, but I don't know if she is marriage material ( being that she couldn't stay faithful, and you guys aren't even married) I do think everyone deserves a second chance, depending on the degree of the thing that they do, but I think that the best thing you could do would be to follow your heart on this one.:) If you think she could change her ways, if you know she IS THE ONE for you, if you have no doubt in your head, I would try and fix things with her. Just think about it... how you honestly feel:) Is there someone else out there specifically made for you? I would suggest to Pray to God on this one, let him guide you in making the right descision :)

Good luck!:):D

I will Pray for you :)

Trust is a very important component in any relationship. If she cheated on you clearly you two are not ready to get married. You have some issues to solve so it's best to first call off the engagement.

Good luck!

How about a classier approach..

"Maria, I know you've been cheating-don't deny it. Obviously our relationship is not 'enough' for you-and he offers what you feel I am missing....okay. So let's be adults...we break the engagement, you return the ring , and we part amicably."

if she refuses to return the ring then...

"I am sorry you feel that way....I have no choice then but to sue you for the ring or what I paid for it...so we will let a judge decide."

E) Dump her and not be friends.

Why would you want to prevent yourself from moving on emotionally and finding someone who is worthy of you by maintaining any sort of a relationship with her. The longer you stay in contact with her, the longer it takes you to move on....and that prevents you from meeting and falling in love with your Cinderella.

Be classy about it, but move on.

This is the kind of person who says, "We're not actually married yet, so TECHNICALLY, it's not cheating." But I'm not interested in technical faithfulness, but actual faithfulness in thought, word and deed. If I were in your shoes, I'd never trust her again, so to me, it's over. And DON'T be friends. Friends don't betray each other.

PS: Lose the ethnic references -- her ethnicity has nothing to do with it.

Break off the engagement and end your relationship with her completely. Why would you want to be friends with someone who betrayed you?

"because she needs to be more white...because she's mexican?" No wonder she cheated on you. She's better off without you.

haa...why would you joke with her about it ? hah..

if you want to stay with her then do and hope for the best

if your rely hurt den get a better relashionship b/c if uz are goib to get married and she does that on you.........not good.

If you can't trust her now, can you trust her later?

She should return the ring, BTW.

E) none of the above