What Should i Do Next?
I was friend with benifits with a guy ( lets name him bob). anyway me and bob were kinda close for about a year but not bf/gf. we were just really into eachother. Then out of no where he shows up and has a girl friend i was really upset and devistated. bout three months into their relation ship i was hanging out over at his sis house and he offered to drive me home. i told him yes. while on the way to my house he asks me if i wanna go to his house for you know what. at first i told him no because he needed to get his **** together but then he said that when school started up he would dump her and get with me. so i did.......a week or so later i told him it wasnt a good idea if we actually were together...he kinda asks like he still wants me and god knows i want him but i had to save myself some heart ache.....My question is WHAT IS MY NEXT MOVE??? Im stuck...........
Answers & Comments
i was in the EXACT same situation. and what i did was let him go. it hurt me soo bad that the guy i was soo into, got some random girl to be his gf after all the time we had together and him telling me at one point that he was goin make us official. i realized that i had wasted my time with him because he didnt know what he wanted. i was fell so hard this guy that it was insanely hard for me to tell him to leave me alone cause i wanted to be with him so bad. but, i found somebdy who treated me wayyy better than he ever did. and it was easier movin on. i couldnt allow myself to get hurt like that again, because theres always a chance he could do it again. so i left him alone. i think that if u really love this guy, and u are not sure that he has the same feelings for u, its hard to do but leave him alone. theres nothing worse to let someone play with ur feelings and not know what they want....when u do know what u want....
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