Should I be offended if a guy calls me kinky?
I have called men kinky before and the way I see kinky as people that like to do really weird sexual things.
Now when it comes to me I do not think I am kinky. As "kinky" as it get is positions and public places. Not that I do that but its more of my fantasy. Where I come from its normal. Anywho he said "you are kinky and love it!" This is not the first time it has happen. But I can't help but feel slightly offended. Should I just take it as a new form of a complement?
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Hey,
You don't have to be offended when a guy calls you kinky. He said 'You're kinky and I love it!' He could just have easily have said you're sexy, hot or so much fun in bed. He was probably using kinky as a synonym for all three of these things.
If you still feel uncomfortable about being called kinky, then you need to ask him what he meant by that: 'You know when you said that you loved that I'm kinky? Well, what did you mean?' I'm sure he'd be happy to clarify things for you.
Sure, traditionally, kinky is kind of an insult. It was a taboo word that people didn't feel comfortable being identifying with, but, hey, times have changed. Meanings evolve. I don't think you need to be offended by what your guy could easily have meant as a compliment, but, if it still bothers you, then I would absolutely suggest that you bring it up for with the guy for your own piece of mind.
I hope that helps! Take care and good luck.
NOOOOOO!! You sound like you're a normal sweet woman. That's like the perfect combo for us guys. A girl that can get a little freaky if she wants to but composes herself like a sophisticated woman.