She said the L word! >_<?
i spent the night with this girl that ive been talking to for about two months now. were not rushing into anything because she just got out of a relationship and im not even sure that i want to be in one. well one thing i know is that i like her. A LOT. i adore her soo much. and she means so much to me at this point. well we were making out and such, talking, caressing, all that great stuff on her bed. and as im kissing her neck. she whispers in my ear so softly i could barely be certain. but i am. she says "i love you" i said "what?" as if i couldnt hear her and she says "nevermind" MY MIND IS IN SUCH TURMOIL. do i admit that i heard her. i know i love her too. i do and its not until this moment that ive realized it.... question is, do i tell her?
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OF COURSE YOU SHOULD TELL HER! If she told you that she loves you, then it means she's ready for a relationship with you now. & now that you realize you love her too, it should mean you want to be in a relationship with her. it's perfect timing now to tell her. Cuhs if you dont, you might be too late. So you should should tell her NOW.
I know if I was in her position, I would want you to tell me how you felt& such.
your best bet is take her out to dinner, and near the end of dinner, bring up the fact that you kneejearked the other night, and then tell her what you were trying to say. tell her its important to YOU, that SHE knows you must be truthful, and your words got boggled a bit.. if she cares she will melt.. you are young and havent seen nothing yet. hehe main thing is be truthfull with one another. its a ***** sometimes but if you care truly, she is not just a place to park your dick.. give it hell mayun
If you love her then of course you should tell her. She probably thinks you don't feel the same because of the way you responded.
depends if you want too. how do YOU think SHE will react? i would tell her if i wanted too. but words are poweful so make sure you dont sound like your just saying that to just say it and not mean it. make it sound like your words came from your heart :]
just wait it out
if you both have feelings for eachother there's no point in rushing
just wait and see if it's real between the both of you! good luck!
first, ask her about it. see if she meant it, if she did and she wasn't caught up in the physical aspect of the moment, then yes, tell her.
Yes, tell her how you feel. You already no she loves you so just tell her.
no dont tell her. she was caught up in the moment
Yeah, go for it.
Make sure its what you really want to do.
yes tell her. only if you really do love her though